Published in Human Parts·PinnedMember-onlyThe Joys of Being Wrong About YourselfLearning that self-discovery is a process, not a punishment — In February I was introduced to a man, a successful man by any standard, a man called Rupert (and naturally by “introduced,” I mean I heard him talk about himself on Radiolab for three minutes). Rupert is your average 71-year-old podcast guest, probably, except for one thing: He has gone…Identity16 min readIdentity16 min read
Sep 17, 2021Member-onlyDispatches from the Great In-BetweenA Very Long Instagram Caption Re: My Birthday That I’m Posting Here, Instead — I’ve been silent online for most of the year leading up to this, my 35th birthday, because simply put, I had no words. Ran clean out of them. And when you’ve built your livelihood — and reputation, and self-worth — on words, that’s a miserable place to be. So far…Burnout7 min readBurnout7 min read
Published in Momentum·Feb 25, 2021Member-onlyOn Seeing My Grandpa Strike a Pose at the BeachSnapshots of my Black history — What the textbooks never taught me about Black history, growing up, is that it sat beside me on a plastic-wrapped couch most Sundays, watching reruns of Baywatch over microwaved TV dinners. The lectures never acknowledged that the people who were spat on — taunted, threatened, denied basic human rights on…Hidden History10 min readHidden History10 min read
Dec 4, 2020Member-onlyMeet My Favorite Song, “Favorite Song”Spotify recently released their annual year-in-review…experience?, which is pretty much the only year-end content I care about (sorry, “Auld Lang Syne”). …Music2 min readMusic2 min read
Nov 26, 2020Member-onlyThat Feel When You Gotta Call 911 on YourselfI’m a big fan of 911. As a kid, I watched Rescue 911 religiously. When my little sister shoved a Lite-Brite peg into the depths of her nasal passage, my first responder six-year-old ass had the phone off the cradle and the 9–1 dialed before my mom could say “tweezers.”…Anxiety8 min readAnxiety8 min read
Nov 24, 2020Member-onlyMeet My Non-Human Quarantine CrushesThe creatures that stole my heart — and possibly, my sanity? — Growing up, I was what you’d call boy-crazy. There seemed to be no limit to the number of crushes I could simultaneously manage; logistical issues of geography, age, availability, and physical existence mattered little, if at all. I had crushes on cartoon characters (Dale of Chip ‘n Dale: Rescue Rangers…Animal Crossing7 min readAnimal Crossing7 min read
Published in Creators Hub·Nov 5, 2020Member-onlyYour Creative Process Evolves When You DoGrowth is a creative process — but don’t discount the wisdom of your younger self — When I first began writing online over a decade ago, I wasn’t just building the foundations for my eventual career — I was awakening to the notion that I had a voice. And it was an intoxicating discovery: I had no shortage of things to say, and I lacked the…Writing6 min readWriting6 min read
Published in Creators Hub·Nov 3, 2020Member-onlyBreathing New Life Into Old StoriesIn his beautiful braided essay “Last Boat to the San Juan Islands,” Andrew Jazprose Hill achieves the impossible: He makes me miss the ferry. Reading about his ride with a dying woman and her family was, for me, a sensory experience: I could taste the salt-licked wind, the desperation of…Writing2 min readWriting2 min read
Published in Momentum·Sep 28, 2020Member-only“This is not just racial justice work, and it’s not the work of being anti-racist, and it’s not the work of being a movement. It’s the work of being alive.”—Storyteller, activist, and futurist Janaya Future Khan, who was profiled by Carvell Wallace in this month’s Vogue Where Spirituality Meets Protest: Inside the Activism of Black Lives Matter's Janaya Future Khan THERE IS NO SMALL TALK with Janaya Future Khan, unless you count the first thing the Canadian-born, Los Angeles-based…www.vogue.comRace1 min readRace1 min read
Published in Momentum·Sep 3, 2020Member-onlyBiking While Black Shouldn’t Be a Death SentenceBirding, jogging, and biking all sound like innocuous ways to spend a little time outdoors, unless you happen to be Black. On Sunday night, two LA County Sheriff deputies attempted to stop 29-year-old Dijon Kizzee as he was riding his bike, which he was apparently doing in “an unlawful manner.”…Race3 min readRace3 min read
